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how do u survived a lost love??
a. find another guy/girl to hang out with?
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b. Be with Friends
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c. in denial
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Location : davao city
Registration date : 2008-07-13

PostSubject: Key Truisms about Surviving Lost Love   Tue Jul 07, 2009 12:14 am

When one door of happiness closes, another opens:

but often we look so long at the closed door

that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.

Helen Keller.

Life's glory is not in never falling,

but in getting up EVERY time you fall.

Nelson Mandela

Overcoming a Broken Heart

Step One:

Allow yourself time to heal, and know that you can heal. Whether the loss is due to death, rejection, or other reason.

It is normal to grieve over a loss of a love for any reason.

It usually takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to begin to put their lives back together again. It sometimes takes five years for individuals and families to get over the emotional pain and trauma. Many people can have serious health and emotional problems during this time.

Step Two:

Realize that you still can find happiness.

Realize that you can control how you think, what you think about, and how much.

A key is to concentrate on the positives you have in the present. Not thinking about the future or past.

Healing Helpers

Being around people and getting involved in helping others is a good way to accelerate the proces of healing.

Laughing helps too, so see a comedy, watch funny things. That is part of the reason the Irish have a party when someone passes away.

Helping others helps you loose sight of your own losses.

It is strongly suggested that you take the intensity of your feelings and re-direct them into doing something constructive that helps others. For me, it was creating this web site and doing volunteer work that helps others. Do volunteer work, it can help the healing process greatly. Especially, if the volunteer work envolves working with others, and feeling gratitude from those you are helping. The channeling the power of your feelings to accomplish constructive acts is very, very helpful.
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Dj Daughter

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Location : Quezon City
Registration date : 2011-04-03

PostSubject: Re: Key Truisms about Surviving Lost Love   Sat Apr 23, 2011 11:23 pm

Very Happy tama! Very Happy maganda parin kung sa kaling buksan mo man uli ang puso mo ay doon sa taong tatangapin ka nang buong buo. mahirap na iyung bigay ka lang nang bigay hindi natin alam na nasasakal, napipilitan o bali wala lang sa taong nais nating mahalin ang ginagawa nating kabutihan! Very Happy iyun lang!

Razz Good eve! Very Happy
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